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Demystifying Stress: How It Shapes Our Lives and How to Deal With It

Tracy Lefebvre • November 21, 2023

Life is like a rollercoaster - full of ups and downs that can leave us feeling stressed. But what exactly is stress, and why does it affect each of us differently? Let's take a ride through the spectrum of stress, from the good kind to the not-so-good and learn how to navigate it for a happier and healthier life.

Eustress – The Positive One

Imagine that feeling you get when you're about to take on a new job, tie the knot, or even ride a thrilling roller coaster. That's eustress, and it's the good stuff! Eustress happens when exciting challenges come our way, sparking personal growth and goal achievement.


When eustress hits, our bodies release oxytocin, the love hormone. This chemical boost fills us with energy, motivation, and focus. It's like a turbocharge for your ambitions!


How to handle eustress? Embrace it! Recognize these moments as opportunities for personal growth and self-improvement.

Acute Stress – The Temporary Protective One

Picture this: last-minute presentations, sudden meetings, or slamming on the brakes to avoid an accident. That's acute stress, and it's a temporary bodyguard against life's surprises.


When acute stress kicks in, your body releases adrenaline, noradrenaline, and cortisol. These superheroes make your pupils dilate, your blood pressure spike, and your muscles spring into action.


Navigating acute stress is all about letting your body reset itself after the stressful event. Try calming techniques like grounding and centering to help you chill out.

Chronic Stress – The Long-Term Companion

Chronic stress is like that annoying background noise that never seems to go away. It's caused by prolonged exposure to pressure and tension, often sneaking up on us.


This type of stress often lurks in the shadows of demanding jobs, financial struggles, or ongoing relationship issues. It's a slow burn that can lead to health problems like headaches, digestive issues, and even mental health challenges like anxiety and depression.


To navigate chronic stress, the key is recognizing its long-term impact. Consider relaxation techniques, lifestyle adjustments, or seeking professional help to keep it in check.

Toxic Stress – The Silent Destroyer

Toxic stress is the darkest side of stress, often stemming from chronic adversity, especially during childhood. It occurs when we lack the necessary support and coping mechanisms.


Exposure to neglect, abuse, poverty, violence, or trauma can trigger toxic stress. It doesn't just affect your mind; it can physically change your brain, impacting learning, behavior, and overall health. Plus, it increases the risk of chronic diseases, anxiety, and depression.


Dealing with toxic stress requires more than relaxation techniques. It means creating stable, supportive environments to counter its harmful effects.


In conclusion, stress is an inevitable part of life, but understanding its different forms and how to manage them is crucial for our well-being. So, embrace the good stress, cope with the bad stress, and protect yourself from the toxic stress. Your body and mind will thank you for it!

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